Have either of you ever been in combat?
I haven't been in combat. My question to you is do you know what percentage of the Iraqi population is Sunni-Arab and what percentage is Shiite?
I don't speak from personal experience, if that's what you're wondering. It's all stuff gleaned from historical accounts of guerrilla suppression campaigns*. In antiquity, guerrillas were pretty rare because the standard method for dealing with them was to destroy both the structures and the inhabitants in the area from which the guerrillas were operating. This meant that the locals usually gave up rebels rather than face massacre. This stuff is pretty specialized, which is to say unless you're genuinely interested in history, you're not going to run across it much.
Arabs aren't known for their squeamishness, either in antiquity or in the modern era. The Syrians had a Sunni guerrilla problem in Hama in the 1980's. Syria is ruled by Alawites (a Shiite heresy), but is 75% Sunni. The Alawite solution to the Hama revolt was to bomb it flat using heavy artillery. Anywhere from 10,000 to 25,000 residents of Hama were killed. After this incident, Syria ceased to have a Sunni guerrilla problem. It's not that Sunnis preferred having Alawites rule, it's merely that they found life under Alawite rule preferable to the great danger to their kinfolk that an armed revolt would bring.
* Not stuff I specifically looked out for, but material I noticed in passing while reading about formation of kingdoms, empires and states throughout history. (I tend to smile at the breast-beating that goes on here over the treatment of American Indians during winning of the West. If the Chinese of that era had fought the Indians, they would have killed the leaders after their defeat and sold the survivors off as bonded slaves). Modern histories are much more touchy-feely - there is a tendency to see wars as a result of misunderstandings. As compared to the ancient, and timeless, understanding of wars as a struggle over resources and ideologies.