"Do you want to know who you are? Don't ask. Act! Action will delineate and define you.--Witold (?) Gombrowicz"
From: http://www.quotelady.com/subjects/action.html
Ref:
http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=950DE0DC113CF936A35752C1A96F948260&sec=&spon=&pagewanted=print
and
http://www.statssheet.com/articles/article24415.html
True or not, the quote seems commonly considered a Jefferson quote:
examples:
http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/t/thomasjeff120901.html
http://thinkexist.com/quotation/do_you_want_to_know_who_you_are-don-t_ask-act/225646.html
http://thebryantadvantage.blogspot.com/2007/11/thought-for-day-do-you-want-to-know-who.html
a lot of blogs also attribute this quote to Thomas Jefferson.