I agree with this 100%; this point of Wendy Shalit’s (and tax chick’s elaboration) I’ve seen so often in my own life. The people who gave me the most trouble about being a virgin in college weren’t my fellow students, it was the professors. (Get over your hangups, etc.)
My 16-year-old daughter has a very clear perspective on young men: “Go f’ yourself! I have a life!” Probably has something to do with having five younger brothers :-).
Welcome to FR! (Or welcome back, if you useta be somebody else.) I think most of us are coffee addicts!
Followed by an invitation to a hot tub party at his house.
(I realize I made an assumption about gender here, but I've run into the type.)