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Can Atheists Be Parents?
Time ^ | Dec. 07, 1970

Posted on 01/02/2008 4:38:37 PM PST by Dawnsblood

After six years of childless marriage, John and Cynthia Burke of Newark decided to adopt a baby boy through a state agency. Since the Burkes were young, scandal-free and solvent, they had no trouble with the New Jersey Bureau of Children's Services—until investigators came to the line on the application that asked for the couple's religious affiliation.

(Excerpt) Read more at time.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society; US: New Jersey
KEYWORDS: 1970; adoption; atheist; law

1 posted on 01/02/2008 4:38:40 PM PST by Dawnsblood
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To: Dawnsblood

“Can Atheists Be Parents?”

Yes however they understand when they look into their child’s eyes and smiles, they only see worm food.


2 posted on 01/02/2008 4:40:03 PM PST by edcoil (Reality doesn't say much - doesn't need too)
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To: Dawnsblood
I misread the headline as "CAN ATHEISTS BE PRIESTS?"

Ha.

3 posted on 01/02/2008 4:41:38 PM PST by jdm
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To: jdm

Yeah, sure, but they have to do to the schools for it just like everybody else.


4 posted on 01/02/2008 4:43:57 PM PST by Emmett McCarthy
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To: Dawnsblood

Alternate headline: “Can Time be in more love with Atheists”?


5 posted on 01/02/2008 4:45:23 PM PST by Sam's Army
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To: edcoil

What a dumb ass thing to say.


6 posted on 01/02/2008 4:45:29 PM PST by ShadowDancer ("To succeed in life, you need three things: a wishbone, a backbone and a funny bone.")
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To: Dawnsblood

Only by accident.


7 posted on 01/02/2008 4:45:37 PM PST by kjam22 (see me play the guitar here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=noHy7Cuoucc)
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To: Dawnsblood; Admin Moderator

Exuse me, but the date you posted on the article was “ 1/7/08”. This article was published 12/07/1970, 37 years ago.


8 posted on 01/02/2008 4:45:51 PM PST by Paleo Conservative (I'm not celebrating Kwanza!)
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To: Dawnsblood
The freedom to practice religion includes the freedom to practice no religion.

My Protestant faith is so strong is needs no legislation to strengthen it.

9 posted on 01/02/2008 4:45:57 PM PST by MindBender26 (Is FR worth our time anymore? All the "fun" sees to be gone.)
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To: edcoil

Care to explain that idiotic comment?


10 posted on 01/02/2008 4:47:11 PM PST by darkangel82 (And the band played on....)
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To: Dawnsblood

Makes me wonder if there are other issues at hand. Seems pretty arbitrary to reject because of a lack of religion.


11 posted on 01/02/2008 4:47:15 PM PST by onja ("The government of England is a limited mockery.") (France was a complete mockery.)
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To: Paleo Conservative

Time was online back in 1970? Algore had the internet invented by then?


12 posted on 01/02/2008 4:47:35 PM PST by jdm
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To: Paleo Conservative

My apologies, you are correct.


13 posted on 01/02/2008 4:47:45 PM PST by Dawnsblood
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To: Dawnsblood
Since the woman is a “pantheist”, which means she believes in God in some form, why didn’t these two join a Unitarian Church so they’d have a religion to put down on the adoption forms? If they really wanted a baby, they would have done something that accommodated his atheism while (ethically) enabling them to claim a religion. I think there’s more to this story. (Antoher point: a woman giving her baby up for adoption is free to choose the religion of the adoptive parents. How many such women do you think say it’s fine if their baby’s parents are atheists?)
14 posted on 01/02/2008 4:47:56 PM PST by utahagen
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To: Dawnsblood
Last year the Burkes presented their adopted son, David, now 31, with a baby sister, Eleanor Katherine, now 17 months, whom they acquired from the same East Orange agency.

I think I'd be more concerned about the age of the parents. If they have a 31 year old adopted son, they'd have to be rather old to be adopting a 17 month old girl. Considering this article was published 37 years ago, the 31 year old son would now be 68, and the girl would now be 38½ years old.

15 posted on 01/02/2008 4:51:59 PM PST by Paleo Conservative (I'm not celebrating Kwanza!)
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To: edcoil
Yes however they understand when they look into their child’s eyes and smiles, they only see worm food.

No, we see a beautiful child that we hope to raise to be a good person and a benefit to humanity. What a depressing outlook you're projecting onto others.

16 posted on 01/02/2008 4:52:49 PM PST by antiRepublicrat
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To: Dawnsblood

I think even athiests are able to figure out how to insert tab A in slot B. Thats about all it takes to become parents.


17 posted on 01/02/2008 4:54:12 PM PST by festus (Fred Thompson '08)
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To: Dawnsblood
Eleanor Katherine, now 17 months, whom they acquired

Isn't that a heartwarming statement. "Acquired." Like a land transaction. God help us all.

18 posted on 01/02/2008 4:57:41 PM PST by buccaneer81 (Bob Taft has soiled the family name for the next century.)
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To: jdm

I saw the same thing. My eyes are failing fast :(


19 posted on 01/02/2008 4:58:10 PM PST by Past Your Eyes (You knew the job was dangerous when you took it.)
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To: Dawnsblood
For any who care to know, it was reversed on appeal. Sorry about the old article.
20 posted on 01/02/2008 4:59:49 PM PST by Dawnsblood
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To: Dawnsblood

I can’t believe this happened in NJ! It sounds more like something that would take place in the “Bible Belt”.


21 posted on 01/02/2008 5:00:50 PM PST by basil (Support the Second Amendment--buy another gun today!)
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To: Dawnsblood

Thank you. I was just going to go bounce around the web in search of the outcome. : )


22 posted on 01/02/2008 5:01:14 PM PST by happinesswithoutpeace (You are receiving this broadcast as a dream)
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To: basil

Okay—maybe 37 years ago, things were different in NJ. I didn’t yet realize the article was this old. Why is it being posted now?


23 posted on 01/02/2008 5:03:57 PM PST by basil (Support the Second Amendment--buy another gun today!)
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To: antiRepublicrat; darkangel82; edcoil
I think (hope) that edcoil is being sarcastic. In other words, these atheists don’t see the obvious. All they see is worm food.
24 posted on 01/02/2008 5:05:31 PM PST by pilipo
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To: darkangel82
Not idiotic at all except to atheists that hate to be challenged and not face their decisions. If there is nothing else, they we are just worm food and they made the decision to make more worm food.
25 posted on 01/02/2008 5:06:23 PM PST by edcoil (Reality doesn't say much - doesn't need too)
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To: edcoil

I’m not going to answer that, I’ll just leave you to wallow in your own ignorance.


26 posted on 01/02/2008 5:10:37 PM PST by darkangel82 (And the band played on....)
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To: darkangel82

Actually, the reverse is more true. My 9 year old came by and I asked him the question - after a few moments thought he simply said, “no”.


27 posted on 01/02/2008 5:12:01 PM PST by edcoil (Reality doesn't say much - doesn't need too)
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To: edcoil

I don’t know what you’re talking about, so I’ll end this here.


28 posted on 01/02/2008 5:12:43 PM PST by darkangel82 (And the band played on....)
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To: Dawnsblood
The original article is from Time ^ | Dec. 07, 1970

Just a tad "out of date" don't you think?

29 posted on 01/02/2008 5:14:03 PM PST by Fiddlstix (Warning! This Is A Subliminal Tagline! Read it at your own risk!(Presented by TagLines R US))
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To: utahagen

Pantheist believes in God in some form?

They believe nature is god. Hence the calf, crocodile, cat, gods of Egypt, the various nature gods of American Indians, etc.

Pantheism = idol worship, paganism, Hinduism, occultism, witchcraft.


30 posted on 01/02/2008 5:14:15 PM PST by sasportas
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To: Dawnsblood

Better atheists than muslims. At least with atheists there is hope: someone gets sick, someone sees the light, etc.

With muslims the child’s chances are limited.


31 posted on 01/02/2008 5:16:52 PM PST by eleni121 (+ En Touto Nika! By this sign conquer! + Constantine the Great)
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To: utahagen

How many such women do you think say it’s fine if their baby’s parents are atheists?)

Not very many, I would guess about 1/2% would not care.


32 posted on 01/02/2008 5:29:06 PM PST by svcw (ncmi.net)
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To: Dawnsblood

Well, if they could produce a kid on their own without having to adopt through ‘the gubmint’ or a private agency, yes.

If not, they have to meet the same criteria EVERYONE ELSE has to. Not everyone can adopt, even if they ARE religious. There are many factors that disqualify all sorts of people and they may not like it, but that is too damn bad. If the adoption group believes that it is important for those children to grow up in a family that believes in God (god), and that it is in the best interest OF THE CHILD, NOT THE PARENTS, then they ought to either meet the requirement or they don’t get to adopt.


33 posted on 01/02/2008 5:35:52 PM PST by Secret Agent Man
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To: Dawnsblood

Wow. This in the PRNJ. I would think atheism would be the state religion.


34 posted on 01/02/2008 5:40:53 PM PST by AlaskaErik (I served and protected my country for 31 years. Democrats spent that time trying to destroy it.)
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To: darkangel82
I wouldn't have put it so dis-tactfully. But what standard - without God - would
you have used to backup your evident disdain, beyond your own opinion?
35 posted on 01/02/2008 6:16:01 PM PST by onedoug
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To: onedoug; antiRepublicrat

see antiRepublicrat’s reply at #16


36 posted on 01/02/2008 6:20:52 PM PST by darkangel82 (And the band played on....)
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To: svcw

I think you and I are on the same page: any woman giving her baby up for adoption would want parents who believe in (some kind of ) God.


37 posted on 01/02/2008 6:44:39 PM PST by utahagen
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To: Dawnsblood

This judge deserves to be thrown out of his position, and thereafter sued into oblivion for violating the rights of these two. Unfortunately, his position prevents him from suffering the latter consequence of his egregious action.

He automatically assumes that because most religious people indoctrinate their children in their religion that atheists must indoctrinate their children into having no religion. It’s not true. Hasn’t also he noticed that kids raised in one religion do convert to others, or to none at all? How a child is raised here may influence the end religion, but it is not a guarantee. Thus in this case it’s not a guarantee that the child will have no religion.


38 posted on 01/02/2008 6:45:30 PM PST by antiRepublicrat
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To: Secret Agent Man
If the adoption group believes that it is important for those children to grow up in a family that believes in God (god), and that it is in the best interest OF THE CHILD, NOT THE PARENTS, then they ought to either meet the requirement or they don’t get to adopt.

This is the judge -- the government -- deciding in this case. It's not a private matter between private people and groups that can therefore base any criteria on religion.

39 posted on 01/02/2008 6:50:05 PM PST by antiRepublicrat
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To: antiRepublicrat

Well it is a logical assumption that atheists are not going to take their kids to church, so it is a good conclusion that atheists are not going to expose their kids to religion, unless they are pointing out the negatives of it and why it’s a waste of time. You don’t teach your kids to believe in things you don’t believe in.

That is why they have atheist summer camps for kids(ie freethinkers). It ain’t religious people sending their kids there - it’s atheists and secular humanists. The whole point is to have a camp that is not religious. So these people illustrate they are doing things to not put their kids in a religious setting.


40 posted on 01/02/2008 10:01:03 PM PST by Secret Agent Man
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To: Dawnsblood

Interesting how this old article has been making the rounds all over the internets today.


41 posted on 01/02/2008 10:03:57 PM PST by happinesswithoutpeace (You are receiving this broadcast as a dream)
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To: darkangel82
"Hope" for ultimate meaninglessness?

Not me. From a single photon to a possble multiverse, connectivity in God.

I think there's better evidence than none.

42 posted on 01/02/2008 10:08:53 PM PST by onedoug
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To: onedoug

whatever.... we’re obviously not going to agree, so I’ll let it go.


43 posted on 01/02/2008 10:09:58 PM PST by darkangel82 (And the band played on....)
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To: darkangel82
Interesting. That's what most atheists usually say.

Though All Good to You and Yours.

44 posted on 01/02/2008 10:13:10 PM PST by onedoug
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To: antiRepublicrat
This judge deserves to be thrown out of his position, and thereafter sued into oblivion for violating the rights of these two.

Since the article is 37 years old, the Judge is probably dead by now.

He must be sitting on the Ninth Circuit Court.

45 posted on 01/02/2008 10:13:30 PM PST by Polybius
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To: antiRepublicrat

This was from 37 years ago.

The judge has since passed away. I found a “In Memoriam” blurb on the Rutgers Alum page for a Hon. William J. Camarata.


46 posted on 01/02/2008 10:15:57 PM PST by happinesswithoutpeace (You are receiving this broadcast as a dream)
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To: eleni121
Better atheists than muslims.

Atheism and secularism wouldn't stand a chance.

47 posted on 01/02/2008 10:17:05 PM PST by onedoug
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To: Dawnsblood

Unless infertile they are able to be parents.

The author would have be wiser to title this: “Should Atheists be Parents?”

I’d answer that it’s up to them.

So far as adopting is concerned, I wouldn’t want my surviving, dependent children adopted by atheists, but there are probably atheist parents who wouldn’t care.

That’s why wills are important.


48 posted on 01/02/2008 10:19:41 PM PST by xzins (Retired Army Chaplain! True Supporters of Our Troops Support the Necessity of their Sacrifice!)
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To: edcoil

Maybe the only thing an Atheist assumes is that the a-holes know who they are.


49 posted on 06/11/2008 10:38:18 AM PDT by equaviator ("There's a plane on the horizon coming in...see it?")
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