I agree that the emotional elment cuts both ways; however the first is for the guilty conscience of one who chooses to kill the child, the second is for the one, who through no fault of their own, either lost a child or could never concieve. The fact that the literature accompanying the plastic model would help to clarify that issue. The anxiety a woman, or couple feel, after losing a child in utero or never having been able to concieve to begin with afflicts them all their lives, especially when seeing other infants. It is not a bad thing; it is a reality of our existence (like accidental deaths) and the deprivation we may feel when we are denied something we want vs. something we may really need. Adoption has soothed this problem for many couples. Too bad so many more infants aren’t available for these same people due to abortion.
Your post sounds like it’s from a pamphlet, not from experience or talking to real people.