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TO WOMEN: How to Build A lasting Relationship
1/20/08 | bear_slayer

Posted on 01/20/2008 9:42:43 PM PST by Bear_Slayer

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To: Bear_Slayer

LOL. We’ve known each other for 15+ years and only started dating a few months ago.


61 posted on 01/20/2008 10:23:05 PM PST by Rb ver. 2.0 (Global warming is the new Marxism.)
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To: SatinDoll

I’m sorry for the pain in your life that your mother caused you. Actually, this article is exactly NOT for perfect people at all. The guy is saying that men really DO care about the “inside” — the “real you” — and how you make them feel about themselves — more then they care about your dress size. I think underneath the humor, it’s about unconditional love that is possible between a man and a woman — as long as everyone understands that we are different, and don’t try to remake the other sex into something they were never meant to be.

I’ve been reunited this last year with my one and only love from 25+ years ago, and we are back together (it’s a long, miracle story). After writing for awhile, I told him I’ve changed a bit physically — put on weight since he knew me years before. He very patiently sighed over the phone, and said, “Baby, do you really think i care about that? Do I care that you’ve changed? I’ve changed too! We’re both older, and I am just grateful that we have another chance to love each other, and to be back in each other’s lives again!” He shows me this every day— now that he has actually seen me in person again. He looks at me and loves on me exactly the way he did when i was 19 years old — and took up less space than I do now. :-)

Take heart. They’re out there. We just have to keep it real ourselves.


62 posted on 01/20/2008 10:23:20 PM PST by adopt4Christ (The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.)
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To: SatinDoll

None of us is perfect. One of my favorite Psalms.
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm%20139%20;&version=9;


63 posted on 01/20/2008 10:26:39 PM PST by The Spirit Of Allegiance (Public Employees: Honor Your Oaths! Defend the Constitution from Enemies--Foreign and Domestic!)
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To: Hildy

I look forward to it.


64 posted on 01/20/2008 10:27:32 PM PST by skr (How majestic is Thy Name, O Lord, and how mighty are Thy Works!)
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To: Rb ver. 2.0

hhmm....sounds just like what I DO for my man! Have you asked her if her alternate personality would show up if you married her? Good for you. Hopefully you are worthy of such an amazing creature. And I would bet you $100 that she has read every single book that Dr. Laura has ever written (that’s Dr. Laura advice right down the line!).


65 posted on 01/20/2008 10:27:56 PM PST by adopt4Christ (The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.)
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To: MarkL
"A few quotes by Walter"

ROFL!

66 posted on 01/20/2008 10:30:08 PM PST by Pajamajan (Pray for president Bush. Pray for our troops. Pray for congress, Pray for our nation.)
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To: adopt4Christ

Thank you. That’s very kind.


67 posted on 01/20/2008 10:55:30 PM PST by SatinDoll (Fredhead and proud of it!)
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To: The Spirit Of Allegiance

Thank you. That was very kind.


68 posted on 01/20/2008 10:56:11 PM PST by SatinDoll (Fredhead and proud of it!)
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To: Bear_Slayer

Yeah!


69 posted on 01/20/2008 10:58:57 PM PST by Grizzled Bear ("Does not play well with others.")
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To: hercuroc

Nice ad. ;>)


70 posted on 01/20/2008 11:01:15 PM PST by Cyropaedia ("Virtue cannot separate itself from reality without becoming a principal of evil...".)
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To: Rb ver. 2.0

Can you clone her...?


71 posted on 01/20/2008 11:02:31 PM PST by Cyropaedia ("Virtue cannot separate itself from reality without becoming a principal of evil...".)
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To: Rb ver. 2.0

She’s a tranny.


72 posted on 01/20/2008 11:08:48 PM PST by I_like_good_things_too (Check the "Yes" box next to survival)
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To: Moonman62
I don't like it when they ask what I'm thinking.

My wife used to ask me that a lot. I started always answering, "About sex." Now she hardly ever asks :)

73 posted on 01/21/2008 12:35:19 AM PST by Sparticus (Libs, they're so open minded that their brains leaked out.)
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To: Bear_Slayer
Heres another;

Quit thinking your God’s gift to mankind and that you are the ONLY woman on the planet!

And if you are a feminist, go blow your brains out and save some poor SOB from a wretched life on this earth until the day he dies! Anyhow, propagating is not your strong point so stop trying to pretend!

74 posted on 01/21/2008 1:01:17 AM PST by Herakles (Diversity is code word for anti-white racism)
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To: Kevmo
Uh, I think Bear_Slayer covered that in:

1. He is not your zit. Stop picking at him.

I think you pretty much covered it all, although I think my husband might add . . . let us catch you doing some domestic oriented activity (Like ironing, or cooking with an apron on) in clothing that accentuates your physical positive--doesn't have to be blatant, just subtle. It has taken me nearly a decade to realize this small little delight.

sweet vanity post.

75 posted on 01/21/2008 2:17:08 AM PST by GOP Poet
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To: Hildy

be sure to ping me :-)


76 posted on 01/21/2008 2:19:15 AM PST by GOP Poet
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To: Mr. Jeeves

Now that is a big dose of medicine right there. Thanks Jeeves.


77 posted on 01/21/2008 2:21:49 AM PST by GOP Poet
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To: Rb ver. 2.0

Then what dear man are you waiting for? Marry the lady.


78 posted on 01/21/2008 2:27:29 AM PST by GOP Poet
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To: Hildy

Ping me when you post it.


79 posted on 01/21/2008 3:34:46 AM PST by Bear_Slayer (When liberty is outlawed only outlaws will have liberty.)
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To: adopt4Christ
The guy is saying that men really DO care about the “inside” — the “real you” — and how you make them feel about themselves

I disagree. It speaks nothing of the guy except "How to please his needs & wants."

I'm not saying that doing so is bad, except when its required by force or coercion.

Love must be based on . . .well, Love. Done because one wants to not because God or anyone else requires it.

ANd the recipient must not be a "taking" a$$hole. He must give in return and the article does not mention anything that the 1950s man should be providing to his 1950s wife.

Which is why many women are absolutely offended by the article, and why NOW got a foot-hold in the 1970s.

80 posted on 01/21/2008 3:42:27 AM PST by Bear_Slayer (When liberty is outlawed only outlaws will have liberty.)
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