Seems to me I heard that excuse elsewhere for something similar recently -- not him. I guess that's going to be another line along with "The check is in the mail" and "I'm from the government and I'm here to help." LOL!
I hate that this idiot had to bring up anti-gay slurs against Grabauskas -- out of bounds ad hominem and, AFAIK, Grabauskas neither keeps it a secret nor makes some kind of crusade out of it! And what he did at the Registry was little short of a miracle IMO!
Grabauskas is a great guy, good worker, I worked for the State when he was there before he was with the MBTA, everyone knew he was gay, however, he did not flaunt it, he was just a regular guy getting the work done and getting it done right.