Be careful how you rank sin. Is it a greater sin for some sexually confused person to express himself than murder (retsach?) Is it a greater sin to bear false witness than to worship false gods? (like the UN?) Is it a greater sin to gossip than commit adultery? I believe that G-d detests all sin—but the sin of homosexuality makes it difficult for that person to turn towards G-d, because he is blinded. G-d talks about repentence as Tikkun (recognizing sin) and Tshuva-turning from that sin. We are all sinners and we need to hear the G-d of the Universe—so my prayer is rather than to condemn homosexuals, I ask that the Father give them the clarity to recognize that they have turned away and fallen short from the glory of G-d (as we all have)—not condemned by themselves, but they need to run towards our Father in all humility...
And it separates us from Him.
I think you are the one who needs to be careful. You seem to be saying that since one cannot observe all 613, it's okay to observe none.
And there's a big difference, to me at least, between quietly failing to observe, and celebrating that failure.
ML/NJ