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if I plead my attorney says Id have to give up my guns for the probation period and my CWP is forfeit/gone for three years minimum.
Sounds like he already has
Plead to a misdemeanor, lose, my CWP, and a year's probation or take a chance with a jury trial and the additional expense of the trial itself with a possible 3 year stint in state prison for daring not to plead.
They even have a term for it: a "Bests Interests" plea - its in your best interests to shut up about that "but I'm innocent" crap, plead guilty and take it or we'll really hammer you with the Ag assault. charges. ;-(