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Looking for Mr. Good Enough
Townhall.com ^ | February 28, 2008 | Suzanne Fields

Posted on 02/28/2008 8:28:50 AM PST by Kaslin

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To: qam1
Out here in the New Jersey suburbs most of us 40 something men got married in our twenties and have pre-teen children.

We're married to our first wives.  Some of our wives work, some of them don't. We're professionals and contractors with the means to live in pricey New Jersey homes.

We're coaches for our kids teams.  We're volunteers for church, school and the poor.

We get together occasionally at a sports bar and pig out and drink but not in the same quantities as we did 20 years ago.

We have responsibilities and we live up to them.  We don't have a lot of time for moaning.

In short, I would say we're plain ol' men.

It's not a bad life. 

In my office in NYC, I know of some of these Sex and the City type women just a few years younger than me.  Virtually all of them quite attractive. 

They do lament about the lack of good men but then, why did their type give me the brush off 15 years ago.

Perhaps they get noticed more because they have time to write articles like this.

 

41 posted on 02/28/2008 9:54:49 AM PST by Incorrigible (If I lead, follow me; If I pause, push me; If I retreat, kill me.)
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To: Kaslin

seems the author was dumped for being a “female dog” more than a few times.

Like a typical feminist, she blames men.

This article could have been written in any decade with only minor changes.

The author would have been a femal dog in all those decades.


42 posted on 02/28/2008 9:56:47 AM PST by longtermmemmory (VOTE! http://www.senate.gov and http://www.house.gov)
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To: Grunthor

Like your tag line.


43 posted on 02/28/2008 10:02:30 AM PST by Mamzelle (Time for Conservatives to go Free Agent)
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To: najida

Thanks for the ping and the list! LOL. Tell Darla I have dibs on Alfalfa.


44 posted on 02/28/2008 10:03:30 AM PST by Mamzelle (Time for Conservatives to go Free Agent)
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To: Kaslin

Their is too much drama in dating today. I would rather to just travel and obtain an education and if I meet someone, fine, if not then that’s fine too.


45 posted on 02/28/2008 10:09:02 AM PST by Xenophon450 (I guess I'll never know, some things under the sun can never be understood...)
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To: misterrob

He doesn’t need a woman to marry to become a citizen either.


46 posted on 02/28/2008 10:10:55 AM PST by COUNTrecount
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To: najida

Thanks!


47 posted on 02/28/2008 10:16:18 AM PST by Huntress (“When you have to shoot, shoot, don’t talk.”--Tuco)
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To: ladyjane

Ladyjane, it’s not that you’re not bad... it just that you’re just not bad ENOUGH.


48 posted on 02/28/2008 10:17:29 AM PST by Fido969 ("The hardest thing in the world to understand is income tax." - Albert Einstein)
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To: Kaslin
Regarding why men aren't looking to settle down, it's as my dear old Daddy used to say, "Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free?" Women aren't demanding anything of men anymore, so why should the men settle down and deliver? If a guy knows he can satisfy himself without any sort of commitment, then it will take some real lightning bolt to force that commitment; usually a pregnant girlfriend who refuses to have an abortion, expecting marriage, instead.

Women have forgotten the power they used to have, because the feminists convinced them that they didn't have any power, but that they every right to sleep around, 'just like the guys do'. It has made for a sorry situation, indeed.

49 posted on 02/28/2008 10:28:16 AM PST by SuziQ
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To: HairOfTheDog
There is nothing more unattractive to me than people of either gender that sit around and bitch and moan about the opposite sex.

ROTFL! Ain't that the truth!

50 posted on 02/28/2008 10:31:54 AM PST by SuziQ
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To: SuziQ

The problem with the model you refer to is that making a man wait until after marriage for sex is no guarantee he would stay anyway.

One thing to get him, quite another to keep him.


51 posted on 02/28/2008 10:32:40 AM PST by misterrob (There is no such thing as a RINO.....CINO on the other hand has meaning.)
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To: Mamzelle

thank you.


52 posted on 02/28/2008 10:37:32 AM PST by Grunthor (McCain voters believe that it's possible to pick up a turd by the clean end.)
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To: Slapshot68

“I may be wrong but at least in my circle of friends and acquaintances it seems when career minded women hit their late 30s and begin looking to settle down, the men in their late 30s have decided they’re going to be bachelors. lol”

Or, if they want a family, they’re looking for women who are more likely to be fertile and provide them with offspring - say, in their late 20s or so. Ladies, don’t hate me for saying that - it’s just a biological fact.


53 posted on 02/28/2008 10:39:27 AM PST by -YYZ- (Strong like bull, smart like ox.)
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To: WOSG; Kaslin; najida

It took me a long time to accept the concept of being a nurturer. It boils down to doing little things for others who know how to recognize and appreciate and reciprocate the little things.

All the ‘me, me, me’ stuff has to end. The sooner the better.


54 posted on 02/28/2008 10:49:57 AM PST by Froufrou
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To: -YYZ-

S’right,
at this point in my life I’m looking for a 20 year old male with exessive stamina and endurance.

Don’t hate me guys, it’s just a fact ;)


55 posted on 02/28/2008 10:52:14 AM PST by najida (I am so grateful that stupid isn't contagious.)
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To: najida

You’d get less backtalk from a vibrator.

I’m just sayin’...

;o)


56 posted on 02/28/2008 10:53:30 AM PST by Froufrou
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To: Kaslin

Interesting article.

Some of these women (and men) should read the “Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands” by Dr. Laura.

She has lots of comments in that book that are dead on. A women looking for a man will find plenty of info in that book.


57 posted on 02/28/2008 10:56:25 AM PST by cowtowney
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To: Froufrou

And they are 100% reliable too!


58 posted on 02/28/2008 10:58:02 AM PST by najida (I am so grateful that stupid isn't contagious.)
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To: najida

I like ‘em young and trainable.


59 posted on 02/28/2008 10:58:02 AM PST by Hoodlum91 (I support global warming.)
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To: Hoodlum91

Ya got yers (How’s the trainin’ comin’?)


60 posted on 02/28/2008 10:59:44 AM PST by najida (I am so grateful that stupid isn't contagious.)
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