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Looking for Mr. Good Enough
Townhall.com ^ | February 28, 2008 | Suzanne Fields

Posted on 02/28/2008 8:28:50 AM PST by Kaslin

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1 posted on 02/28/2008 8:28:56 AM PST by Kaslin
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To: Kaslin

The reality of the radical femnist movement.
Empty beds, empty homes, empty hearts, empty wombs.
A gnawing loneliness and despair.
Sad. Depressing.


2 posted on 02/28/2008 8:34:18 AM PST by XR7
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To: Kaslin

I may be wrong but at least in my circle of friends and acquaintances it seems when career minded women hit their late 30s and begin looking to settle down, the men in their late 30s have decided they’re going to be bachelors. lol


3 posted on 02/28/2008 8:35:30 AM PST by Slapshot68
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To: Kaslin
Politics and the street fight between Hillary and Barack Obama aren't the only games in town. A bachelor acquaintance of mine, a prosperous man in his 40s, was new in town and wanted to meet the love of his life, to marry, and become a father and citizen (and voter).

This guy was looking for a green card and the women were too picky?.Maybe he was still moist from swimming the Rio Grande.

4 posted on 02/28/2008 8:38:04 AM PST by COUNTrecount
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To: qam1; ItsOurTimeNow; PresbyRev; Fraulein; StoneColdGOP; Clemenza; m18436572; InShanghai; xrp; ...
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5 posted on 02/28/2008 8:42:33 AM PST by qam1 (There's been a huge party. All plates and the bottles are empty, all that's left is the bill to pay)
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To: COUNTrecount

A prosperous man in his 40’s doesn’t swim the Rio Grande....


6 posted on 02/28/2008 8:51:52 AM PST by misterrob (There is no such thing as a RINO.....CINO on the other hand has meaning.)
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To: Kaslin
Interesting article...

Women who settle for Mr. Good Enough wind up leaving him later on because he simply wasn’t the right one. Certainly the expectations come into play here but when someone decides that they are worth a certain amount they don’t like marrying below the bar.

8 posted on 02/28/2008 8:55:46 AM PST by misterrob (There is no such thing as a RINO.....CINO on the other hand has meaning.)
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To: Kaslin
A simple view of the women from ages 38-50 on Match.com will find a plethora of women looking for Mr. Perfect. Check out the zip code 10036 and they all want Mr. Perfect. Women’s lib has come to roost...and the Roosters aren’t looking.
9 posted on 02/28/2008 8:55:58 AM PST by vetvetdoug (Just when one thinks life is strange, it gets stranger.)
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To: Kaslin

Ping for another look


10 posted on 02/28/2008 8:56:38 AM PST by kublia khan (Absolute war brings total victory)
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AaaaaHH! Spinster remorse.

In 40 years they’ll be chasing any man in the retirement home till he succombs.


11 posted on 02/28/2008 8:59:18 AM PST by bert (K.E. N.P. +12 . Never say never (there'll be a VP you'll like))
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To: XR7

Unintended consequences. If any group deserves it, it’s the feminists. I’m shedding tears! NOT!


12 posted on 02/28/2008 8:59:50 AM PST by unixfox (The 13th Amendment Abolished Slavery, The 16th Amendment Reinstated It !)
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To: richace

As I mentioned in another post, women simply don’t want to marry down. As they have achieved more the pool of suitors has shrunken.

MBAs don’t marry blue collar dudes who carry a union card.


13 posted on 02/28/2008 9:00:05 AM PST by misterrob (There is no such thing as a RINO.....CINO on the other hand has meaning.)
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“men in their late 30s have decided they’re going to be bachelors”

I resemble that description unless a really, really great woman were to come along that wanted ME, not the man that she thinks that she can changed me into.


14 posted on 02/28/2008 9:01:08 AM PST by Grunthor (McCain voters believe that it's possible to pick up a turd by the clean end.)
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To: COUNTrecount

Good observation! Maybe a switch on the Russian mail-order bride scenario? Or perhaps an Asian computer engineer on an H1-B visa?

Plenty of room for a potential culture clash, like when his relatives come to visit and your not allowed to ask how long they’re staying ...


15 posted on 02/28/2008 9:02:06 AM PST by Tax-chick (If there's a bustle in your hedgerow, don't shoot! It might be a lemur!)
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To: vetvetdoug

The twenty somethings are into the hookup scene and that often times will carry them into their late 20s and early 30s. They learn nothing about how to have a relationship with a man and by the time they hit their early 30’s they wind up with a smaller pool to choose from since the smart gals with something to offer grab the good men. Meanwhile what they have waiting for them are the guys who lived off of hooking up with their ilk and the bitter or damaged men who got screwed over by some broad and they won’t settle down again.


16 posted on 02/28/2008 9:04:37 AM PST by misterrob (There is no such thing as a RINO.....CINO on the other hand has meaning.)
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To: Kaslin

I married at age 25 in 1980 (still married to the same woman, by the way), and that was considered “old” for the time. Now, I look around at the 25 years old “men” around the city (Chicago) and I wonder at the immaturity on display. I refer to the ubiquitous baseball cap, often turned backward; the entitlement attitude; the misogynistic and often outright crude behavior toward women (thanks to Bill Clinton for that); the endless partying; the endless games and sports; and so on. I don’t know how this has come to pass, but it sure is demoralizing to me in that I fear for our future.


17 posted on 02/28/2008 9:05:55 AM PST by astounded (The Democrat Party is a Clear and Present Danger to the USA)
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"Not only does he contribute financially, help with the dishes, and share in the child care, but as his wife, if you want some companionship or physical intimacy, you don't have to shave your legs, blow-dry your hair apply lipstick. ... "

Oh yeah. There's a really attractive prospect. Nothing said about being a true wife, supportive of husband and family. Instead, it's all about sucking everything away from the husband.

So no thanks. With an attitude like that these women do not deserve a husband or family. All they have earned is a shriveling up like the old prunes they already are.

They have married their careers and the government. Now they can sleep with it.

18 posted on 02/28/2008 9:08:31 AM PST by DakotaGator
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To: Kaslin; XR7; najida; ExTexasRedhead

You guys sound like bitter, damaged goods. Just because you got dumped when you were in high school doesn’t mean all wimmin are evil. LOL.


19 posted on 02/28/2008 9:10:36 AM PST by ladyjane
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Cultural rot continues apace. This is a product of feminism.
‘liberated women’ means irresponsible wont-get-tied-down men.


20 posted on 02/28/2008 9:12:47 AM PST by WOSG (William F Buckley: A great conservative)
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