[uncbob]

I've seen men that treat their wives like garbage and nasty emasculating women that belittle their husbands with every action. I think it is obvious that those types of spouses bare a great deal of responsibility if their spouse looks elsewhere.

That type of behaviour can't be masked and should have shown up or at least a glimpse of it before marriage

[SampleMan]

That type of behaviour can't be masked and should have shown up or at least a glimpse of it before marriage.

Usually does, but then again I have a good friend whose ex-wife lived a complete and total lie before they were married. She loved to do everything he did, jogged with him, traveled, etc. As soon as they were married she resumed smoking (complete shock that she had ever smoked), told him she hated all the things she formerly claimed to enjoy, and decided that she didn't much care for sex either. There are psychopaths, and they get married too.

His biggest mistake was not going for an immediate annulment.