You asked me if I was happy, as if where I am now isn’t good enough.....as if I’m not good enough as I am.
From my perspective this is the best point in my life..... there are no (OK, a few...a day here, a week there) points in time that I long for, no good ole days that I would want to relive or return to...
There are a few people who’ve passed on that I miss, first husband, grandparents....but....the person I was as recently as 5 years ago I never want to see again.
Not everyone is happy following the same path or doing the same things. Your heaven would be someone else’s hell. That is what we’ve been trying to say.
Here’s the difference...I’m talking in generalizations about the differences between men and women...Of course everyone’s experiences are different. But there are some things that are pretty universal. I wish every woman could know true love...The topic of this thread was Dr. Laura trying to get women to take responsibility for their lousy relationships, somethng women don’t like to do. That’s all.