This comment is really quite insulting to men. Dr. Laura is saying that men are so unable to control themselves that if their wife isn’t meeting whatever sexual desire the man has, the man has no choice but to have an affair or hire a whore. According to Dr. Laura, men are incapable of 1) working through the problem in a loving and mature way with their wife, 2) accepting that you can’t always have everything you want in the world and/or 3) taking your marriage vows seriously come what may. Dr. Laura has cleverly wrapped her man-hating ideas in woman-bashing rhetoric and fooled a lot of people along the way.
Look at the video limked in post #304 to see what Dr. Laura actually said. It’s a lot different that what is portrayed in the article. The other woman panelist and the guy are the ones making excuses for Spitzer. Dr. Laura was making generalized comments, and not specifically addressing Spitzer. In fact, she is quite harsh towards spitzer.