Like the one quote from a man in Dr. Laura's The Proper Care and Feeding on Husbands, "If I'm not horny, make me a sandwich." I would add, that I can make my own sandwich. Mens needs are simple, admiration, affection/sex, and a bit of food; and a decent man will do anything for his wife.
Of course this does not apply if the guy is an abuser, adulterer, or addicted.
What if she’s horney?
Just curious (and yes, I’ve read all of “Dr.” L’s books and that is why I believe she is the Queen Mother of Dutified Doormats).