[StolarStorm]

Selfish is refusing to lose weight to make your husband happy.

Glad to hear your friend found a man who likes heavier women, there are plenty of them out there. The problem is when a man marries a thin wife (and finds thin attractive), works hard to stay fit himself and the wife doesn't care enough to do the same.

So perhaps the REAL problem isn't exactly the weight problem but rather that the selfish wife doesn't care about her husband's happiness.

[najida]

Did it every dawn that you’re simply shallow?

[PennsylvaniaMom]

If the sole happiness in the relationship is whether or not the wife maintains being a size four then there are much, much bigger problems present than the advent of cellulite.