I agree on that particular act. It’s not something I have an interest in even thought I know a couple of women who claim to enjoy it.
I think a couple should engage in specific acts that they BOTH agree on or are BOTH willing to try. If one is against it, that is the decision for both. It’s why it is so important to discuss those things prior to marriage.
I think the issue is sometimes this ‘kinks’ appear after many years of marriage when boredom sets in and when one spouse says “Hun! How do you feel about triple barbed floggers and chains from the ceiling?”
And the first spouse thinks “Who the heck have I married and what the hell are they talkin’ about!!?!?”