[najida]

We’re in agreement....
If anyone finds themselves married to someone who’s affection is based on something like
a body size,
if they take up a ‘sexy dance’,
if they’re willing to submit to a sexual practice that really disturbs them....

They need to get away as fast as they can and find something better....they deserve it and the person they’re married to deserves what they deserve.

[StolarStorm]

You really are clueless. Everyone has some expectations of their spouse. It doesn't make them evil, shallow or any of the other pejoratives that you have been using.

Woman hold men to standards as well. That's life. Yes, those expectations have to be reasonable. And most would think that remaining healthy and fit to be very reasonable. Sorry that you don't but I'm getting the feeling you have some serious issues with the whole topic.