[StolarStorm]

My friend's wife is an example. She is in her lower 30's yet can't sit in a normal chair without breaking it. She broke one of mine!!!!

Sadly, her level of "letting her self go" is not uncommon in Houston (the second fattest city in the USA). They are EVERYWHERE here.

I can't even ride the bus without getting hit in the face with backside several times by people that can't fit in the aisle. Tell me that that isn't a problem????

[PennsylvaniaMom]

Is your male friend heavy too? Because I would guess that if she is overeating he probably is sharing her poor diet with similar results...so, using your logic, he too has let himself go.