[StolarStorm]

Yep. But it may just be a facade. She loves to play computer games, spend his money and not work. He works 50 hours a week, does all the cooking and so forth. Poor guy. he should cheat if it will keep him sane and alive. I'd normally say divorce, but he has 4 kids... and in their situation divorce really would be worse (I know I know... don't bother)

Yes ladies, there really are woman out there who ARE to blame for their unhappy marriages. Its not always the evil shallow man's fault as some of the chip on shoulder types believe.

[najida]

Ahhh, there is more to this than the weight!

And yes, she’s at fault...but it’s not the weight, it’s her character.
Big diff.

[PennsylvaniaMom]

Four kids? And she is in her early 30s? Could also be post partum depression. Really...it seems (from what you describe) that she has mental health issues...see its not all black and white. The world, and most relationships, are just a murky shade of gray. Its not the weight gain...its what made her gain weight. Untreated depression, diabetes, and thryroid problems can all cause mood swings and unexpected weight change. She should be seen by a physician.