[MEGoody]

I hold that chronic refusal to satisfy one's partner's needs (as distinct from occasionally not feeling up to it) is as big a violation of the marriage vows as infidelity

That assumes there is not some medical condition preventing one of the partners from participating in sex. . .right?

[PapaBear3625]

That assumes there is not some medical condition preventing one of the partners from participating in sex. . .right?

Notice I used the word "refusal" rather than "inability"

That said, there's more than one way to keep your spouse happy if you are motivated to do so