Of course, we’re all different but I would suggest that if a man cheats, it is because there is something, somewhere, lacking in his marriage. Seems pretty obvious.
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Certainly couldn’t be anything lacking in the man’s character, eh? The cause has to be the marriage? What seems pretty obvious to you seems to barely scratch the surface of the issue.
The resulting action (cheating) shows the lack of character on his part. But the issues in the marriage that drove him to that point does not prove a lack of character on his part. Nor is it an indictment of her character. Until they are both willing to sit on Dr. Phil's couch for all America to see, we'll only have numerous scenarios and varying speculation as to why. But it is my opinion and I strongly believe that a spouse cheats because he or she is missing something, no matter how minute, that they can't get at home. It doesn't even have to be a physical desire. It can also be an emotional need as well.