When I was six years of age, my parents would have descended on me like a hive of hornets if I'd started screwing around with anything they either didn't intend to purchase or we didn't own already.
The makers of the novelty lighters aren't at fault. The parents clearly are.
That’s right. If one of my kids touches something he shouldn’t, I ask, “Does that belong to you? No? Then DON’T TOUCH IT!!!”
Learned that one at my Mama’s knee. Still works, too.
Regards,