I think Oscar Wilde would have been on our side (meaning that gay behavior is problematic for individuals and for the commonweal) had he lived longer. It’s my understanding that he saw things differently at the end of his life. He was not the unreprentant poster boy for the gay lifestyle that so many think he was! A biography of Wilde by Pearse (sp?) speaks to this topic.
All the best as we soldier on...
Very good points. I realized my Oscar Wilde comment was DOA as soon as I posted it.