It is part of the growth process to rebel and explore. I think one problem is that many parents make it so taboo to even discuss these issues that as soon as the child is free, the go nuts rebelling. We had a joke about a local Baptist University. You always knew who the sluttiest kids where, they were the ones w/ the most oppressive parents. The kids of the parents who actually were open and discussed issues were the ones most likely to wait until marriage. This isn’t about sex, but drinking, drugs, you name it...
Oh without a doubt, you’re right on. I’ve said it before, but when I was growing up the easiest girls to talk out of their panties were the ones with strict fathers. It didn’t take much psychology to tap into that resentment of daddy and all his rules.
The girls you couldn’t get to were the girls who fathers trusted them and let them know it. They couldn’t bear the thought of letting dad down and it made them all the stronger. Those were the fathers that really taught me a thing or two about being a man.