If you’ve ever been around a batter spouse or kid, they can outweigh or outnumber their abuser and still not realize they have the power to free themselves.
The mind is where it all happens.
Granted, when they finally DO realize they’re bigger or there’s more of them, the abuser becomes a grease spot on the floor and we get them for an eval ;)
Yeah, I know. Been there. It’s time for the ladies to start mopping the grease off the floors though.