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It's Okay to Keep Those Feelings Inside, New Study Suggests
Univeristy At Buffalo ^ | 6-1-08

Posted on 06/01/2008 8:53:16 AM PDT by Dysart

BUFFALO, N.Y. -- Contrary to popular notions about what is normal or healthy, new research has found that it is okay not to express one's thoughts and feelings after experiencing a collective trauma, such as a school shooting or terrorist attack.

In fact, people who choose not to express their feelings after such an event may be better off than those who do talk about their feelings, according to University at Buffalo psychologist Mark Seery, Ph.D., lead author of a study to appear in the June issue of Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology.

The study investigated the mental and physical effects of collective traumas on people who are exposed to a tragedy but who do not experience a direct loss of a friend or family member. It focused on people's responses to the terrorist attacks of Sept. 11, 2001, but the results may generalize to include responses to other collective traumas.

The findings have important implications for expectations of how people should respond in the face of a collective trauma affecting a whole community or even an entire nation, says Seery, an assistant professor of psychology..

Seery says the results should not be interpreted to mean that expressing one's thoughts and feelings is harmful or that if someone wants to express their emotions they should not do so. "It's important to remember that not everyone copes with events in the same way, and in the immediate aftermath of a collective trauma, it is perfectly healthy to not want to express one's thoughts and feelings," he says.

Seery points out that immediately after last year's tragic shootings at Virginia Tech University there were many "talking head" psychiatrists in the media describing how important it is to get all the students expressing their feelings.

"This perfectly exemplifies the assumption in popular culture, and even in clinical practice, that people need to talk in order to overcome a collective trauma," Seery says.

"Instead, we should be telling people there is likely nothing wrong if they do not want to express their thoughts and feelings after experiencing a collective trauma. In fact, they can cope quite successfully and, according to our results, are likely to be better off than someone who does want to express his or her feelings."

Using a large national sample, Seery and co-researchers tested people's responses to the terrorist attacks of 9/11, beginning immediately after the event and continuing for the following two years. In an online survey, respondents were given the chance to express their thoughts and feelings on the day of 9/11 and a few days afterward.

The researchers then compared people who chose to express their thoughts and feelings versus those who chose not to express.

If the assumption about the necessity of expression is correct -- that failing to express one's feelings indicates some harmful repression or other pathology -- then people who chose not to express should have been more likely to experience negative mental and physical health symptoms over time, the researchers point out.

"However, we found exactly the opposite: people who chose not to express were better off than people who did choose to express," Seery says.

Moreover, when the researchers looked only at people who chose to express their thoughts and feelings, and tested the length of their responses, they found a similar pattern. People who expressed more were worse off than people who expressed less.

"We assessed various alternative explanations in secondary analyses, but nothing else accounts for this effect," Seery says.

Seery's co-researchers were Roxane Cohen Silver, Ph.D., professor of psychology and social behavior, and E. Alison Holman, Ph.D., assistant professor of nursing science, University of California, Irvine; and Whitney A. Ence and Thai Q. Chu, doctoral students, University of California, Santa Barbara.

The University at Buffalo is a premier research-intensive public university, a flagship institution in the State University of New York system that is its largest and most comprehensive campus. UB's more than 28,000 students pursue their academic interests through more than 300 undergraduate, graduate and professional degree programs. Founded in 1846, the University at Buffalo is a member of the Association of American Universities.


TOPICS: News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: feelings; griefcounselors; psychology; trauma
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Hopefully we will see a halt to grief counselor ghouls descending on schools, spouting their psychobabble gobbledygook every time something untoward happens.
1 posted on 06/01/2008 8:53:17 AM PDT by Dysart
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To: Dysart

About damn time.

But what will Oprah, et al, talk about now?


2 posted on 06/01/2008 8:56:50 AM PDT by Larry Lucido
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To: Dysart

And perhaps schmaltzy nonstop coverage of some of these events? I live outside of St. Louis and there was a horrific shooting in one of the suburbs in February. I quit watching the first ten minutes of the news for about 2 weeks. One of the stations got its own theme music for when they did the “Kirkwood” report.

There are bits and pieces I am interested in following and I feel sympathy for those affected, but the new age street therapy was over the top.


3 posted on 06/01/2008 9:01:25 AM PDT by PrincessB ("I am an expert on my own opinion." - Dave Ramsey)
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To: Dysart
I'd tell all of you what I think of this article but it's none for your freaking business! Got it! Good! ;O)
4 posted on 06/01/2008 9:01:36 AM PDT by Man50D (Fair Tax, you earn it, you keep it!)
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To: Dysart

Psychology is the exact center of the Cartesian problem in science.


5 posted on 06/01/2008 9:04:10 AM PDT by RightWhale (We see the polygons)
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To: Dysart
Hopefully we will see a halt to grief counselor ghouls descending on schools,
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

The grief counselors are the acolytes of the government school priesthood. ( /sarc)

6 posted on 06/01/2008 9:07:57 AM PDT by wintertime (Good ideas win! Why? Because people are not stupid.)
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To: Man50D
You just need a dose of "healing" in order to bring "closure." Keep expressing your anger, now, you'll feel so much better.
7 posted on 06/01/2008 9:09:53 AM PDT by Dysart
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To: RightWhale

Yep. The practice of Psychology should retreat back into the fields of Marketing and Advertising. There is a school of thought that says it was developed for this purpose, at least the modern theory as we know it. Having sat through a few of these courses I wouldn’t argue against the notion.


8 posted on 06/01/2008 9:15:48 AM PDT by Dysart
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To: Dysart

Call it Psychiatry and all will be okay. Calling it some kind of -ology doesn’t distinguish between this and other -ologies such as astrology.


9 posted on 06/01/2008 9:18:07 AM PDT by RightWhale (We see the polygons)
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To: Dysart
This makes sense to m. I've always thought that those that pushed you to talk about things were off-base.

What I mean is, sometimes you want to talk about things, sometimes you don't. It's nice to have someone there when you want to talk, but the talk must be on your schedule, not theirs.

10 posted on 06/01/2008 9:19:04 AM PDT by chesley
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Hopefully we will see a halt to grief counselor ghouls descending on schools

More likely there will be furious attacks on this research. There will be claims that it will cause people to clam up who shouldn't. Therefore, in order to avoid harming THOSE people, everyone should be made to talk.

The touchy-feely culture is both too deeply entrenched and far too profitable for the aforementioned ghouls.

11 posted on 06/01/2008 9:29:42 AM PDT by irv
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To: Dysart

Does this mean its okay to tell our wives it isn’t necessary to talk out every little thing because it definitely is driving me nuts.


12 posted on 06/01/2008 9:36:42 AM PDT by badpacifist (Personal attacks on someones opinion of a "news article" you happened to post is asinine.)
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Refer to#11, and likely subsequent ‘furious attacks on the research.’ :)


13 posted on 06/01/2008 9:41:27 AM PDT by Dysart
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To: Dysart

My guess is that expressing feelings isn’t consistently more or less healthy... but that the group that did not express their feelings was composed more by people who were psychologically strong enough to know how to resolve the issues themselves, rather than seek the help of superfacially caring “experts.”

“Heathers” was such a great black comedy, wasn’t it?


14 posted on 06/01/2008 9:46:25 AM PDT by dangus
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To: RightWhale

>> Call it Psychiatry and all will be okay. <<

Don’t call it “psychiatry”. Psychiatrists are real, legitimate medical doctors. Call it “psycho-opining.”


15 posted on 06/01/2008 9:48:47 AM PDT by dangus
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To: dangus

That is a good point. Maybe it is closer to Astrology and other entrail reading.


16 posted on 06/01/2008 9:51:13 AM PDT by RightWhale (We see the polygons)
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To: Dysart

Not for nothing was Freudian psychoanalysis known as the talking cure.

The patient lies on the couch and is encouraged to talk. Of course. Last time I heard, it cost the $200 for a 50 minute hour, and that was many years ago.

Why wouldn’t psychiatrists encourage people to talk, when they are paid by the hour to listen to this talk. That goes for these guidance councellors, of course, too, who are presumably paid out of the school budget.


17 posted on 06/01/2008 9:56:49 AM PDT by Cicero (Marcus Tullius)
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To: Dysart

Knew it all along-suck it up-be a man bookmark.


18 posted on 06/01/2008 9:58:50 AM PDT by IrishCatholic (No local communist or socialist party chapter? Join the Democrats, it's the same thing.)
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To: IrishCatholic

Good Call!

It’s one thing to have beer w your buds and blow off some steam...but it’s another to go and have a gun put to your head for a public confessional!


19 posted on 06/01/2008 10:06:11 AM PDT by Keith Brown (Among the other evils being unarmed brings you, it causes you to be despised Machiavelli.)
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To: Dysart

What a refreshing point of view. Maybe the Era of Wallowing is at an end?


20 posted on 06/01/2008 10:07:45 AM PDT by SE Mom (Proud mom of an Iraq war combat vet)
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