You said: There isnt a soul alive who hasnt hated another person who has done them wrong or who has wronged a loved one. So we are ALL according to Jesus Himself guilty of murder, many times over.
So everybody who experienced a negative emotion is just as guilty of "murder" the same as someone who plunged a knife into the bodies of other human beings. You are a very disturbed person, and I do not believe other Christians share your sick views.
Amen to that! Thank you for making the distinction.