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hmm...

Well, thanks for the responses. It appears that however close our nations are perceived to be in terms of economics, foreign policy and general relations, the reality is very different indeed.

If it weren’t for the fact that we are English speaking nations, we would probably admit that we just don’t seem to get along at all.

IMO, it's precisely because we are so close historically, culturally, etc, that we squabble so much. (Just as family members squabble, while putting the "best foot forward" for strangers). Also, we seem to have certain, misguided expectations of each other, because we have so much in common. We are surprised when the differences appear, and seem to see those differences as value judgements upon ourselves, rather than just accepting slightly different development at face value.

As in-when we go to a really foreign country-one with totally different culture, no shared history, etc-we don't have those expectations, and can be more objective, or at least see it as curious and exotic. We can't do that with each other.

I've also wondered if there hasn't been a teensy bit of resentment that the US, of all former colonies largely settled by expat Brits, chose in such a dramatic fashion to distance itself from the "mother country"? I don't see such deep animosity between, for instance, Britain and Canada or Australia. At least, not of which I'm aware.

And many of us do have a feeling for Britain, which is why it matters to us what happens to your nation, in a personal way that wouldn't occur if we were discussing, say, Italy going down the tubes. What happens in your country perhaps hits too close to home for us.

Just some random theories, none very deeply thought-out :)

...Also, we seem to have certain, misguided expectations of each other, because we have so much in common...

And again, that’s probably the case.

*Animosity towards the US?
Well, speaking for myself I say no. If I were given leave the speak for the people, then...maybe. The younger generations today don’t understand the historical past we have, for good or ill. Those that undestand, well there will be some who have a bit of resentment perhaps. Interestingly their is generally more animosity shown towards the Aussies, but the nature of our cultures (banter/sarcasm/taking the piss) means that we generally understand what is in good taste and what isn’t. They consider us as weakling Poms, and we think they are uncouth criminals. But its banter though, so their is a playful edge to it. Canadians? Awesome people, what a country!