Posted on 07/31/2008 5:19:13 AM PDT by marktwain
stupid woman. there was most likely no need for an OOP here. she just wanted to screw her husband for a little bit and didn’t think of the consequences. why can’t people act like adults?
Yes. It is:
It is run by Alan Korwin, a good friend of mine. He is a great guy, and very knowledgeable.
Not quite. Two entities in two different locations can not simultaneously possess the same item(s). It's a good move and it certainly beats giving up your firearms to the police (which is more idiotic). Remember, this is not a divorce case.
Here you just had to go and tell the world about the one trick that old timers have been using since waaaaaay back when.
I’d have filed the stolen gun report before calling the lawyer’s office.
I was not as pissed off as I was later. I had not met her lawyer yet. When I did, we were having a meeting. I got my pound of flesh then. I had her lawyer do pissed off she gave into my demands just to get out of the meeting. A mind is a terrible thing not to play with.
We definitely need the law changed in that respect. No person in this country should ever be made to give up their firearms in the case of a divorce or order of protection. Divorce is particularly terrible though.
That’s why when I get married, we’re signing a prenuptial. No matter how much I love her. =)
Well, to me the deal is the lawyer, if it wanted to be a pain, could simply deny having the gun, making it into a he-said, it said argument about a firearm. Icky to have flopping around during a divorce case. It sounds like it was OK for you in the end, and that’s good.
Lawyers greatest weakness is they think they know everything and they think you are afraid of them. I know they do not and I do not fear them.
Very true.
You can get a restraining order fairly easily, especially when a spouse is involved.
This,too,is true.No judge in his/her right mind is gonna deny an application for a restraining order from a woman so as to avoid ever seeing the headline "Judge Smith Could Have Saved Mary Jones By Approving Restraining Order".
I can assure you that "domestic violence" occurs.I know because I saw it during my 20 year tenure working in a big city ER.I've seen women badly beaten by their hubby/boyfriend.I've seen women who were murdered by their hubby/boyfriend.In fact,one of my most vivid memories of my 20 years was of a woman shot in the forehead by her husband/boyfriend.She didn't even make it to the OR.
OTOH,I'll wager the clothes on my back that some (most likely many) of the claims that women make regarding DV are false.And it's the possibility of false accusations that cause me to demand some kind of hearing that the "defendant" is allowed to attend (and to present evidence in) before the "abuser's" gun rights can be suspended for more than a short period.
So how will this prenup be worded? "If I ever ask a judge to issue a restraining order against you I agree that you'll be able to retain possession and control of your guns"?
That'll give her a warm fuzzy feeling.
Did you ever see a man beaten by the woman? Most of the time, they are reluctant to admit it.
Most of the studies that I have read on the subject indicate that in domestic abuse, the victims are evenly split between men and women. It is just that women have political correctness on their side.
Men are more likely to use their hands. Women are more likely to use an implement.
As I read in one of the articles, domestic violence most often tends to be a “dance of mutual destruction”, despite the propaganda that the left has so successfully foisted off on the public.
Advantage: It hoses the opposing lawyer.
Disadvantage: When cops are involved, personal guns sometimes disappear never to be seen again.
Good point. Problem is, in some places, not involving them amounts to grounds for them to take the guns, regardless.
In this case, how do you figure? Someone was in possession of property stolen from him. He offered them the chance to return it and avoid prosecution. I can’t believe that’s against any law.
A few times.That is,there were a few cases where a guy came in assaulted claiming that his wife/girlfriend did it.
Most of the studies that I have read on the subject indicate that in domestic abuse, the victims are evenly split between men and women. It is just that women have political correctness on their side.
I have no personal knowledge that would confirm or refute this statement,However,my *gut* tells me that it's not,in fact,*evenly* split while,at the same time,I'm willing to assume that female on male DV does occur.
Men are more likely to use their hands. Women are more likely to use an implement.
Men use their hands and implements.I know this to be true.Regarding women...I don't know.
As I read in one of the articles, domestic violence most often tends to be a “dance of mutual destruction”, despite the propaganda that the left has so successfully foisted off on the public.
I have no trouble believing that in some cases women who are "battered" are not 100% blameless.That is...sometimes a woman will do or say something that fully warrants an insulting response but not a slap...or a baseball bat...or a bullet.I can also accept that some women fail to take adequate steps at the first sign of abuse but,rather,come back again and again.
With the prenup, she won’t be able to take half of everything I have, and thus, according to the High Chancellors of the Judiciaries, I won’t be tempted to argue and/or possibly even harm her about anything.
At least, that’s probably how they think in Liberal Land.
Do you really think it’s fair that a women hires a lawyer, steals half your stuff, then files an order of protection against you, and has the firearms your father and grandfather gave you, alone with every one you purchase yourself, confiscated? What if that’s over 150 firearms? THEN, you’d surely be angry at her, and that I do not say in jest.
Unfortunately, gun control laws often don't follow logic.
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