I also don’t won’t them thinking that I’m a spoilsport or a crackpot on things political. I’m thinking long-term here.
Find a new family. I did.
If you care too much about what they think of your opinions, then what difference does it make what you do?
Most Democrats don’t know why they voted for Obama. They just knew he wasn’t Bush. I simply questioned people why they voted for Obama and most of them either said “Because he’s one of us”, “because he’s for change” or “because he’s going to cut taxes”. To each of those, I responded “He’s a half Kenyan rich kid who grew up in Hawaii, he’s never experienced generational institutionalized racism”, “Can you elaborate on what that change is?” or “Since when in the hell did anybody in the Democratic party ever cut taxes?”
They usually come to their senses and they figured out what they did.