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To: HamiltonJay
Try finding a sub 30 woman worth marrying in an urban setting. Seriously, If I was young and single I wouldn’t probably marry a one of em. They are all way too selfish and self absorbed.

I am young and single. The kicker is that even though there are good ones, there is no reliable way to tell the good from the bad anymore.
54 posted on 11/19/2008 8:00:14 AM PST by JamesP81 (A loyal son of the great commonwealth of Kentucky)
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To: JamesP81

Look around for churches that cater to homeschooling.

I know a few mid-20’s, low 30’s gals looking for a good Godly husband.


57 posted on 11/19/2008 8:02:43 AM PST by MrB (The 0bamanation: Marxism, Infanticide, Appeasement, Depression, Thuggery, and Censorship)
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To: JamesP81

“I am young and single. The kicker is that even though there are good ones, there is no reliable way to tell the good from the bad anymore.”

I wish you luck and, yes, it really is difficult to find the good ones. But I recommend you try staying out of the sack. Communication and coming to really know someone is curtailed when the relationship just becomes an opportunity for sex. On the other hand, delaying sex is an excellent way to determine whether you have other areas of compatibility and whether your possible mate can handle delayed gratification (which is an incredibly important facet of marriage). As you socialize in public, as opposed to bedrooms, you will see how she treats and judges others, how she expresses her opinions, her intelligence, her willingness to listen and contribute to conservations, how she drives or thinks of other drivers, her notions of beauty or art, etc. What is so damaging to relationships these days is people seldom get to really know each other because the sex crowds out all other ways of communication and keeps the partners strangers to each other until it is too late. So, stay out of bed if you are truly hunting for a good person.


62 posted on 11/19/2008 8:23:54 AM PST by caseinpoint (Don't get thickly involved in thin things)
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