The real question is whats more important?
No doubt, some families do.
I would suggest their priorities are in order.
Obviously different people have different priorities. What may be important to you may not be important to them. Priorities are not always determined by higher values. Sometimes it's a simple every-day-life decision.
I would suggest their priorities are in order
Again, this is judging according to your yardstick, don't you think? Who do you think theirs' is in order and others' is not?