Posted on 12/23/2008 12:09:15 AM PST by goldstategop
Good for you. I knew a guy that had that problem. His father in law didn’t want his Mexican ancestry Catholic daughter marrying outside the race and religion. It took some years, but it finally changed. The guy was a go-getter and was quite successful. That always helps.
LOL I can’t explain em, I just document the activity.
LOL! I guess I’ll have to start using the line...”wanna drain that prostrate again?”
Not all of them. The women I know who are of the capital-E Emotional types, are also very good at manipulating emotions, both their husbands and their own. It's a fools errand to think that a husband can change such a woman's mood to anything that she doesn't want it to be.
I don’t know what to do with a statement like, “Get a clue guys. It’s not all about you.”
The part that seems to be forgotten here, is that the guy isn’t trying to be offensive to his mate. He is trying to spend some intimate time with her. He is trying to give her pleasure. This isn’t all about him. It’s about a committed relationship, and one where he expects her to enjoy his advances just like he will enjoy hers.
By saying no, she is the one who is saying, “It’s all about me.” He is saying, it’s all about the both of us. I love you. I want to be intimate with you because I love you. If I didn’t, I’d get it elsewhere.
I”m sorry CaramelGal. I meant to insert your name in the to slot, but forgot. I posted this just above already.
I don’t know what to do with a statement like, “Get a clue guys. It’s not all about you.”
The part that seems to be forgotten here, is that the guy isn’t trying to be offensive to his mate. He is trying to spend some intimate time with her. He is trying to give her pleasure. This isn’t all about him. It’s about a committed relationship, and one where he expects her to enjoy his advances just like he will enjoy hers.
By saying no, she is the one who is saying, “It’s all about me.” He is saying, it’s all about the both of us. I love you. I want to be intimate with you because I love you. If I didn’t, I’d get it elsewhere.
Interesting question...
LMAO!!
I thinks that’s certainly something that could be extrapolated from his thoughts. I agree with where you are going there.
For a minute there I thought I had addressed a post to you by accident.
I know where you are coming from. I appreciate that you agree with my post.
Be yourself. I generally find it a good rule of thumb though, to think of what kind of a person would be most compatible with you. If you couldn’t stand living with someone like you, then it’s probably a good idea to make it so the present companion can stand you and want to stick around.
Now if that isn’t desired, you could keep on going the way you are, ride it out, then change post apocalypse. ;-)
I just don’t think it has the ring of, “Hey, wanna have a baby in nine months?” Anything to do with one’s prostate sounds unhealthy to me.
“But he loses me when he states that women should be having sex even when they aren’t in the mood.”
Yeah....he needs to look at why they aren’t in the mood... for instance sciatic pain is a definite mood killer, and migraine headaches or other painfilled conditions would make a women lose interest. If you have been up all night for several nights with sick children, you might not be in the mood to drain his prostate.
Denis Prager might want to watch an old movie called “They Shoot Horses” to get an idea of just how tired some working mothers are these days. Not being in the mood might be an indicator of real physical exhaustion or even illness from the rat race marathon. A good spouse like Denis Prager might want to get his wife to the Dr.
Dennis, stick to politics.
The attitude in this article is part of the problem, not part of the solution.
Or maybe just let his wife sleep once in a while.
Wow! And a new keyboard, please.
Or get her a cleaning service, or a child-care assistant, or something. And tell her to stop volunteering for everything!
True, but when a woman gives herself against her desire she will not be feeling "incredible love".
Post-of-the-Week nomination... and my congrats to the gentleman of the house.
Your whole statement says that you married the wrong woman the first time and the right one the second time. You are agreeing with me, not arguing with me.
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