Let us take this question to a level that is more important for humanity: Where is your reality?
Is your “reality” inside your mind, in a world of your own making, where reality is plastic and only pleasant facts are allowed in? A world where truth is what you say it is, where only the rules you like at the moment apply and where only good intentions determine outcomes? A world where the things of the outside world are available to be selected or rejected in making up your present reality.
Or is your “reality” outside of your mind, where you work to keep your understanding of right and wrong in harmony with timeless laws and principles. Where facts do matter and once established, cannot be denied no matter how convenient that would be.
You realize of course that in the second paragraph you have summed up the world view of Blonde and the third paragraph you’ve summed up the world view of un-Blonde.