That was catty! You owe an apology.
No I don’t, it was an honest question I’d like to better understand.
Every time this issue comes up we get lots of similar posts that someone married a foreigner and cannot understand the difficulty of bringing them into the “tribe”. It is easier here then for them to move there I can tell you so,
I’d like to understand what is wrong with all the people in the tribe making them unworthy or them unworthy of others.