Gay Sex is Downright Dangerous and Abstinence Won't Kill You: I Should Know

Virtue Online ^ | 3-10-09 | David MacDonald

[ReformationFan]

(Note: David MacDonald is a Christian singer/artist who recently revealed that prior to his conversion he had been heavily involved in the gay lifestyle. Read his testimony here: www.GayTestimony.com)

I hate to quote statistics, but Canada's largest gay paper XTRA recently reported that, "A group of six Canadian queers is taking on homophobia in Canada's healthcare system by filing a complaint with the Canadian Human Rights Commission."

Gens Hellquist, one of the complainants, is the executive director of the Canadian Rainbow Health Coalition. She explained at length her concerns about the health status of homosexual men and women in Canada, observing: "We have one of the poorest health statuses in this country ... Health issues affecting queer Canadians includes lower life expectancy than the average Canadian, suicide, higher rates of substance abuse, depression, inadequate access to care and HIV/AIDS."

"There are all kinds of health issues that are endemic to our community," Hellquist continued. "We have higher rates of anal cancer in the gay male community, lesbians have higher rates of breast cancer ... the reality is there is (sic) more GLBT people in this country who die of suicide each year than die from AIDS, there are more who die early deaths from substance abuse than die of HIV/AIDS. ... Now that we can get married everyone assumes that we don't have any issues any more. A lot of the deaths that occur in our community are hidden, we don't see them.

Those of us who are working on the front lines see them and I'm tired of watching my community die." This seemed amazing to me, given that Hellquist appears to be arguing against the foundation of the gay rights movement. Now queer community leaders are admitting that gay sex is downright dangerous.

But rather than speak about abstinence, they say they require the government to shift public health priorities away from the average population to the queer community, even though the statistics they provide demonstrate disproportionately higher spending on the gay community currently. Here are some of the stats that they cite in their human rights complaint:

· Life expectancy of gay/bisexual men in Canada is 20 years less than the average; that is 55 years. · GLB people commit suicide at rates from 2 to 13.9 times more often than average. · GLB people have smoking rates 1.3 to 3 times higher than average. · GLB people have rates of alcoholism 1.4 to 7 times higher than average. · GLB people have rates of illicit drug use 1.6 to 19 times higher than average. · GLB people show rates of depression 1.8 to 3 times higher than average. · Gay and bisexual men (MSM) comprise 76.1% of AIDS cases. · Gay and bisexual men (MSM) comprise 54% of new HIV infections each year. · If one uses Statistics Canada figure of 1.7% of GLB becoming infected, that is 26 times higher than average. · GLB people are at a higher risk for anal cancers.

Some gay activists say that the high levels of promiscuity and related STI's, partner abuse, addiction, and suicide in the gay community are because gay men have delayed adolescence as a result of "coming out" late (i.e., in their 30's), and they are promiscuous because they were late blooming teenagers. They say, "Does your gay age match your chronological age?"

If that theory was true then the statistics would show the promiscuity of adult gay men to be similar to straight teenagers. But adult gay men have promiscuity statistics far exceeding straight teenagers. The other problem with this theory is that there is no indication that the "adolescent sex craze" period slows down after 5 years of coming out, as it does after adolescents finish their teen years. In many cases the addiction to lust increases over time. Articles in gay papers frequently ridicule gay men who don't want exposure to HIV, and they encourage them to not curb sex.

The culture of pushing sex down people's throats is not working. There is nothing wrong with abstinence from sex. This goes for everyone who is not married to someone of the opposite sex. I've been single and chaste for many years after having left the gay community. You don't die from not having sex.

It's not like air or water. Recent laws, policies and public funding aimed at reducing the rate of suicide, addiction, partner abuse, and STI's by granting more sexual freedom have not diminished those statistics.

In fact, there has been an increase since the beginning of the 'rights' movement in the early 70's, and it's getting worse, not better. In places like San Francisco and the Netherlands where gay sex has been normalized, many of these stats are worse, so I have difficulty with the theory that more freedom, money and legislation will reduce these stats. That is just not where the facts point.

The Church talks about Natural Law and says that if something is true it will prove true in many ways. The Bible says gay sex is a problem, biology doesn't support it, and health statistics demonstrate its problems. Why not abstain? That's what I'm doing.

[ReformationFan]

It's nice to read of someone who has left this destructive and sinful behavior behind.

I particularly like this quote-

"The Church talks about Natural Law and says that if something is true it will prove true in many ways. The Bible says gay sex is a problem, biology doesn't support it, and health statistics demonstrate its problems. Why not abstain? That's what I'm doing."

Too bad the folks in Hollywood and the lame-stream, drive-by media will never listen to people like Mr. MacDonald. He makes too much sense for them.

[Marie2]

I have a lot of respect for those with homosexual tendencies or attractions who don’t indulge. It is a strong desire apparently, but they abstain in faith.

I heard a Roman Catholic guy who called in to a local radio show and discussed his thinking on it very poignantly. He said he knew the activity displeased God. He said being tempted was not a sin, but giving in was. So he practiced not giving in. For my money he was a very admirable man.

[al baby]

It's nice to read of someone who has left this destructive and sinful behavior behind.

You said Behind ha ha aha

[Leisler]

"Christian singer/artist who recently revealed that prior to his conversion he had been heavily involved in the gayfudge, sword swallowing lifestyle.

I'm shocked, shocked I tell you.

(Actually, they should of been stoned to death for the bad music, fudge or no fudge.)

[Cap74]

The talking points of the gay rights advocate quoted in the article are interesting. They're the same thing we hear about the plight of 'inner-city' blacks. The statistics are discussed as if something is being done to them instead of these being the results of things done, or not done, by them.

The power of Orwellian political correctness is demonstrated by the fact that many never make the simple logical and observational connection.

[arthurus]

An old friend of mine- I have know him and his family since we were both teenagers- Is homosexual and went through the whole homosexual scene in LA and, after watching several friends die of various nastinesses that go under the rubric of “AIDS” decided that maybe it was fun and liberated and all but it isn’t natural or so many wouldn’t die so horribly. He is now a retired abstainer with an antique shop at the other end of the country. He says he just didn’t understand how dangerous it all is or he would have become a monk or something. He says it’s hard to be chaste when you you’re gay but stupid not to be.

[Syncro]

Unfortunately I don't remember where it was, but some parents that have their children opt out of homosexual normalization classes are going to jail because the school says they have to go to the classes.

[Albion Wilde]

You might be thinking of Massachusetts father David Parker, who was barred from his own first-grade son's school because he objected to their homosexuality instruction in first grade. Later, his son was bullied and beaten on the playground while teachers ignored the abuse. His several lawsuits have to date proved unsuccessful in commie Massachusetts. It is a defeat for parents' rights everywhere.

[GOPJ]

Is homosexual and went through the whole homosexual scene in LA and, after watching several friends die of various nastinesses that go under the rubric of “AIDS” decided that maybe it was fun and liberated and all but it isn’t natural or so many wouldn’t die so horribly. He is now a retired abstainer with an antique shop at the other end of the country. He says he just didn’t understand how dangerous it all is or he would have become a monk or something. He says it’s hard to be chaste when you’re gay but stupid not to be.

It's odd how the liberal suck-up press is soooooo concerned about health issues dealing with smoking ( well before Obama), and being overweight, and not getting enough exercise - BUT the most dangerous health issue for the young is being gay. And on that - nothing. Crickets. No warnings to teens. Zip, nada, zilch. Shameful.

[MantillaMilitant]

It also happened much more recently in the U.K. somewhere. About 30 parents kept their primary school-aged children home from school material they objected to was taught, and the kids were marked truant.

The parents might have to go to court. Some of the families were Christian and some Islamic.

[stayathomemom]

lesbians have higher rates of breast cancer

Don't nuns also? I thought there was an inverse correlation between pregnancy and breast cancer.

[little jeremiah]

There’s been so much (mostly) bad news - but this is on the good news side. Good and bad...