I wish! LoL!
She has her achy days as well. not to the extreme of not being able to dress her self. She'd have to want to get out of her PJ's on those days to find that out. She'll just sit around all day in her PJ's with her claws out.
I stay in my garage all day when that happens.
AAAGGGGHHHHHHH....your wife needs her life back....THAT is NOT normal...no matter what age.