Boy, is this guy a ‘fine whiner’ and he sounds like he has some serious, long standing emotional problems.
Time for him to get a job, salvage what he can of his marriage, get some help and move along.
All the adults in this soap opera are in a bad situation, of their OWN making. Take responsibility, act like adults and move on.
tarheel, guy’s wife screws the boss. How is it the fault of the husband? It sounds like he confronted Ensign with Sen Colburn to no avail? What more could he do? I would take it public too.