http://bestrockphotos.com/Aerobic%20Death,%20CYA/1983/index.html
the photo to which you refer was taken at Munro’s Dance Palace in 1983, a Rock Venue, in Seattle.
The young man resembles Mark, who attended college with the son of the baby famous sitter.
The image I posted seems to have been removed from the collection.
photographer:
https://www.facebook.com/mike.leach.735