The Catholic Church is not a democracy. You don't want to follow their rules, leave (and I'm saying this as a Protestant).
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Some sisters surmise that the Vatican and even some American bishops are trying to shift them back into living in convents, wearing habits or at least identifiable religious garb, ordering their schedules around daily prayers and working primarily in Roman Catholic institutions, like schools and hospitals.
ROFL... I recall Our Lord stating what would happen to those who were ashamed of him. Also those who cried Lord, Lord. Some will be shocked by his, “I don’t know you”.
Then again... no they wouldn’t, in their hearts.
They forgot... in the world, not of the world.
God’s will be done, not theirs. I remember someone else saying they would not serve.