Go live in a black man's environment for an extended period. It's an obsession for many.
and it's not treated as a respectful obsession but rather degrading to put it mildly...like white women are more freaky sexually and less likely to try to run them...for them women are authority figures in their formative years since so few have daddies
but plenty of white girls who go for it, some genuine love, some that's all they can get and some think they are missionaries between the races
down here very few end up with married procreation, just the procreation part without marriage..just babies..no daddy..like the hood
whereas when white men marry “black” women it's a totally different animal usually...more likely to be Leave to Beaver like regular middle class crackerdom...and the women are better lokking....this is what gets Spike Lee's (and I bet Skip Gate's too) goat
i’ve seen white gals down here so fat no one ever looks their way till some skinny little black dude gives em a run and dang they get so excited they blush out like a ripe tomato, God love em...they're just lonely for some loving...just wish they'd make a family instead of just another daddyless kid stuck in mixed race land which can be tough enough already without being fatherless
don't blame me for an honest observation....unlike many here I have lived as a peckerwood in the black man's world for most of my life...during the James Crow years, the transition years and now post racially
I think things are worse now actually
Interestingly enough, I don't really see the "poor white girls with black baby daddy's" in this area of the country. Could be due to the ready acceptance of abortion, or some residual ethnic/religious divide. Maybe its simply because lower class whites in this part of the country segregate themselves more aggressively than other parts of the country for some reason.
Although white guys with black women are way outnumbered by white guy/Asian woman pairings in NYC (to the point where you seemingly see more Asian women with white men than Asian men), in most cases, the black lady in question is downright gorgeous, while the white guy is often plain.