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To: Kaslin

We as parents need to stop the romancing of our girls too.

I can’t get over how many mom I hear giggle at the idea of a kindergarten girl or boy with a “boyfriend” or “girlfriend”. At that age, there is no difference in friends. Boy or girl, it’s just someone to play with.

We need to remember that society is pushing them to sex at an early age. We need to discourage it early.

And men, talk to your daughters about what boys want from them. Nothing tells a girl about “hormones” better than a Dad who is willing to be honest about their teenage sex drive. “Boys just want....” is good as gold. My Dad told me and I knew early what “being used” was.


4 posted on 12/01/2009 6:14:43 AM PST by netmilsmom (I am Ilk)
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To: netmilsmom
I used to tell my daughters that when "boys hormones turn on, their brains turn off." They were not allowed to date until age 16 and even then were required to have any dates pick them up at home which included a meeting with dad and an opportunity to see my long sword and feel the blade.

The best thing about the age 16 rule was not that the girls couldn't handle it but that the worst boys were automatically excluded because they had paired off with someone else's daughters by then.

The end result is that we have three of the nicest and sweetest young ladies any parents could be blessed with as daughters.

8 posted on 12/01/2009 6:21:17 AM PST by Vigilanteman (Obama: Fake black man. Fake Messiah. Fake American. How many fakes can you fit in one Zer0?)
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To: netmilsmom
We need to remember that society is pushing them to sex at an early age. We need to discourage it early.

My daughters are almost 16 and recently attended a friend's Halloween party. Apparently, there was an after-party 'co-ed' sleepover, and when one of them hinted she'd like to stay, I refused.

I then explained to all of them that, where I come from, some things just aren't done.

11 posted on 12/01/2009 6:30:52 AM PST by MamaTexan (Sooner or later, the federal government will realize that the Laws of Nature can be a real b$tch!)
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To: netmilsmom

So true...I hate when people say their pre schoolers have a girlfriend/boyfriend in class


28 posted on 12/01/2009 8:26:48 AM PST by denfurb (proud Mama, 6 girls and 1 boy)
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