If you don't you have your child removed (See the Lisa Miller case) or you will be hauled into court and fined, (Read about the Elaine Huguenin case.
Just one time, there’s a lot to be said for the Islamic procedure for these perverts.
Let them marry, place them in front of a brick wall, then bulldoze it from the rear.
Problems solved, opportunities gained!
I, too, have about had it with these sick freaks.