Doesn’t work if you are an outlaw and the daughters are the ones calling everyone to come. Hubby’s nephew brought his under-12 kids up even after the front desk told him he couldn’t. He thought it was funny. Hospitals are not going to push too far unless people in other rooms start to complain. I refuse to tell people when I have to go in the hospital anymore. People in the South just think it is time to come visiting.
If you have no power the best thing to do is to pay respects and leave.
Sorry families are tough.