Just have high energy, be stimulating, be sexy and above all ensure they are having fun and laughing. Sometimes taking them out of their comfort zone doing something scary is fun for them.
Like hiking and then going off trail(you better know what you are doing and can get back but, be confident) Caves are fun too.
Ski/snowboard.
Take them interesting places and be interesting.
bungee jump, sky diving, be creative with getting their hearbeat going. They love it.
Don’t be overly solicitous. Be a man.
Take them to the gun range. They will tell you they hate guns but truth is, they love the power and the boom.
You are so right about women and guns.I took a lady friend to range once and at first she was luke warm about going. Once there all she wanted to do was shoot. The funny thing is everytime she fired at a Man Target, most shots hit in the groinal area.
Something about women and guns.