I always say, for the most part, it’s not your dress, it’s your attitude...but these days...with the sideways caps and the pants down around the shins...it’s hard to tell anymore.
“with the sideways caps and the pants down around the shins.”
Real men wear their clothes correctly, so the slobs can easily be pointed out with your description.
That’s right, you have to go deeper to know what a person is really like. I’ve known men with strange clothes haircuts and piercings and tatoos who turned out to be stand-up guys. It hurt to look at them, but they were pretty good people.
What strikes me is the childishness I run into in a lot of people, middle-aged and below, both men and women. I’m not sure where that comes from, but I was born old.