The fact that he was an adult and her ‘superior’ makes it HIS fault. He is the one in charge, the adult the one who sets boundaries.
Along these same lines, I do understand your point, I know one teenage girl who had an affair with her ‘Seminary’ (HS age religion courses before school) teacher when she was 15 and he was 45. She was sure he was ‘in love’ with her.
Still doesn’t make it right.
And if his judgment is that poor, he shouldn’t be in a position of responsibility anyway.
Yes. A sad but too often told tale. The whole story keeps making me think of this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kvfb8GcKAWs
Young teacher, the subject
Of schoolgirl fantasy
She wants him so badly
Knows what she wants to be
Inside her there’s longing
This girls an open page
Book marking - she’s so close now
This girl is half his age
Don’t stand, don’t stand so
Don’t stand so close to me
Her friends are so jealous
You know how bad girls get
Sometimes it’s not so easy
To be the teachers pet
Temptation, frustration
So bad it makes him cry
Wet bus stop, she’s waiting
His car is warm and dry
Don’t stand, don’t stand so
Don’t stand so close to me
Loose talk in the classroom
To hurt they try and try
Strong words in the staffroom
The accusations fly
Its no use, he sees her
He starts to shake and cough
Just like the old man in
That book by nabakov
Don’t stand, don’t stand so
Don’t stand so close to me
Don’t stand, don’t stand so
Don’t stand so close to me