[metmom]

After that experience, I will say this though: If a 30 year old guy ended up with her nude in a hot tub, he is not the one I would blame.

I would. You said *No* and he could have too.

Getting in a hot tub that he had to go out and rent showed intent and planning. It was no spur of the moment thing.

Passion of the moment is one thing. Premeditated is another altogether.

[RobRoy]

>>I would. You said *No* and he could have too. <<

Yep. I agree. But the only perfect man was hung on a tree a little over 2,000 years ago.

We are all tempted in different ways. My first wife of 20 years was a cold fish. If this had happened to me late in that relationship it is possible I would have responded “differently”. I would like to hope I wouldn’t but, being a man, I know the heart of man.