What would I do if my 40 year old daughter told me she willingly shared a naked hottup dip with a 30 year old 25 years earlier, that the guy has apparently behaved well since, and that he had recently paid her 150k to keep quiet?
I'm not certain I could work up enough indignation to want to ruin his career.
I think you have gotten to one of the things I thought about and a core issue here.